Category: My Husband

Josh sings musicals: episode one



I love my husband, and he is so good at SO many things. Remembering or ever really knowing the words to songs is something that just evades him. That doesn’t stop him or even slow him down. Josh likes to sing HIS lyrics to well known musical songs all the time. It’s just too funny to not share. He’s always very earnest and usually feels he’s singing the right words. Tonight I bring you, Le Mis.

Le Mis by Josh

“And now I’m sad because the tigers have attacked my dreaaaaaaam” Now THAT would have made the whole storyline even more interesting.
xoxo,
Adora

Helpful Husband



and he looks good doing it too...mmm mmm mmm

and he looks good doing it too…mmm mmm mmm

It’s not a secret that in our home, I’m the more neurotic cleaner. Our schedules are so busy that occasionally I’ll get home after a long day and realize that house hasn’t had anyone attend to it in a few days, have a major freak out, clean for hours, and go to bed grumpy – but sated. I love Josh, but he just doesn’t look at our house the way I do.

Similarly to the way men and women differ in how they view their bodies, Josh sees what’s good, I see what’s wrong. He sees the organized living room, I see the mountain of laundry piling up that may avalanche onto us in the middle of the night. Anyway, we’re different.

The other week I was kind of having a rough go of it and when Josh brought me home [after picking me up from work at 6] I was stunned. The man c-l-e-a-n-e-d our kitchen. [I immediately cooked a big meal – I LOVE cooking in a clean kitchen] He also started a few loads of laundry, finally threw out the broken lamp that had been sitting in our hallway for literally weeks, and scooped the kitty litter! No special reason, he just wanted to do more around the house.

He’s amazing. I feel so loved. How does your spouse make you feel loved?
xoxo,
Adora

The Other Adora



me

me

I’ve had my name on my license plate for years. Originally it was a gift from my Pop and I’ve been more than happy to pay the $25 a year to keep it. Now that we’re a one car couple however, Josh drives it more than I do (which I’m totally fine with). Cut to a few weeks ago.

Josh was driving to work after dropping me at my work and mini van pulls up next to him. The mini van proceeds to quickly reverse and pull back far enough to see the back of our XB and then drives back to be at his side and the couple in the van motion for him to roll down his window. I would have ignored this and stared straight ahead, but sweet Josh complies.

The couple ask him what his license plate means and he responds that it is his wife’s name. GUESS WHAT? It is ALSO the name of the woman in the minivan! There is another Adora here in south Florida! While, I’ll never give up my plate, other adora, I’m glad to know you’re out there. This one’s for you!

xoxo,
[the other] Adora

A look back at my wedding



Thank you to my amazing friend, and brilliant photographer Andy Delva, who came up here and took pictures when this low budget mess was going down. He gave me amazing shots even when I told him we didn’t want to stop and pose for anything. Without Andy, I would have had no pictures of this day at all. Thank you also to my amazing, creative, and hard working friends & family who enabled us to throw the whole shebang for under $2000.00 (dress and suit included). Especially my sister, who made my bouquet when I told her no flowers, iced my cupcakes, sewed yards of bunting, made my garter, crafted the bridesmaids headbands and even made Josh’s Boutonniere and countless other things. Finally, thank you to my husband Josh for taking my “make something out of pallets for the stage” statement and turned it into a piece of art that was perfect for our wedding.

The night before our wedding I get a text from Josh asking "Will this work?"  I still think it looks like magic.

The night before our wedding I get a text from Josh asking “Will this work?” I still think it looks like magic.

When he first saw me down the aisle...he said he was just nervous

When he first saw me down the aisle…he said he was just nervous

Wearing my mom's pearl pendant necklace

Wearing my mom’s pearl pendant necklace

The men praying over Josh

The men praying over Josh

putting on my dress

putting on my dress

Groom

Groom

garter

garter

sunlight

sunlight

My two brothers together

My two brothers together

my niece had plenty of dress to hide in

my niece had plenty of dress to hide in

down the aisle with pop

down the aisle with pop

Pastor Tom does a good wedding

Pastor Tom does a good wedding

we're cute

we’re cute

locking it down

locking it down

we do

we do

my dad giving Josh the gift I made for my future husband when I was 12...so embarrassing

my dad giving Josh the gift I made for my future husband when I was 12…so embarrassing

after the ceremony our first moment alone

after the ceremony our first moment alone

our little table

our little table

I found these cake toppers from 1988 at goodwill the week after I got engaged. They were $1 and I loved them.

I found these cake toppers from 1988 at goodwill the week after I got engaged. They were $1 and I loved them.

my sister is the reason almost anything looked good at the wedding

my sister is the reason almost anything looked good at the wedding

cupcakes that my amazing friends baked in mass, and then my talented sister iced and decorated in record time after they were in place

cupcakes that my amazing friends baked in mass, and then my talented sister iced and decorated in record time after they were in place

war

war

toasted

toasted

she's cute

she’s cute

the toasts were often...detailed

the toasts were often…detailed

my new brother in law

my new brother in law

they're brothers now

they’re brothers now

The first boys I ever loved

The first boys I ever loved

First Dance

First Dance

lovely facial expression, about to toss that thing

lovely facial expression, about to toss that thing

gettin' it

gettin’ it

toss

toss

fake. she's not shy.

fake. she’s not shy.

reception dancing [don't tell the church]

reception dancing [don’t tell the church]

I got too low...and fell down

I got too low…and fell down

cha cha slide like bosses

cha cha slide like bosses party hard like bosses

reception dancing [don't tell the church]

reception dancing [don’t tell the church]

i could have danced all night...after I took off my shoes

i could have danced all night…after I took off my shoes

adios babies!

adios babies!

And now, if any of you haven’t seen it before…once again, here is the video Josh put together of our day.

Her Dress: David’s Bridal [but purchased on Craigslist]
His Suit: Express
Everything else: MillionAyres

Feel free to ask about anything you see!
xoxo,
Adora

Chats from the past: Episode 2



Chats from the Past brought to you by....chats....from....the past

Chats from the Past brought to you by….chats….from….the past

Occasionally I stumble upon past G chats or Facebook messages between myself and a friend or Josh, that at the time were probably sincere, but now are just too funny.

This one is Josh and I on March 17th 2012. This was a month after we got married, before I was granted a little more flexible schedule. Josh was working a ton of hours at church which included the whole weekend, and during his only day off (Monday) I was at work.

Me: hi boo boo bear
> > > Josh: hi poo poo bear
Me: I miss you. I hate that we only see each other when one of us is asleep! This must be what it’s like for a traditional folkloric vampire and a normal human to be in love.
> > > Josh: We’re like a more historically accurate depiction of twilight.
Me: Basically, but it’s more sad than sexy for sure.

Thank God for an easier schedule, who knows how sappy we would have gotten.

xoxo,
Adora

Chats from the past: Episode 1



Occasionally I stumble upon past G chats or Facebook messages between myself and a friend or Josh, that at the time were probably sincere, but now are just too funny.

This one is Josh and I on July 6th 2012 (a work day) Just after noon.

Josh:  Teach me to use Pinterest
Me:     Baby, not now. You know to do these things. You are smart, you can figure it out.
Josh:  I just need to know how to get started
Me:     Sign up. Did you do that? Sign up.

He learned eventually…

xoxo,
Adora